Also, he has a little specialty niche massaging fibrofoxes and he says I'm hands down the worst with pain levels so, like a doctor, it's hard for him to massage me because I'm wincing and whining and carrying on because it hurts a lot for me. But, for it to be beneficial to me, it needs to because afterwards it's much better.
But with nannying and crafting and writing (back, shoulders, hands, right arm, right hip), for me to keep going at the pace I'm going, I need some work done on me. So I sacked up and asked. We were finally able to on Tuesday and as expected, it was painful for me and difficult for him. But I felt much better afterwards. So we're going to try to do it every month on a Tuesday (one of his "desk" days where he's not massaging) and I've calendared it to make it official.